You know, the idea that there is just one perfect person out there for you, while romantic on the surface, is a just a sign of one's inability to commit.
Commitment isn't being with the perfect person; that's just logic. Commitment is being with someone who is imperfect and there always being a possibility of someone out there being more. Commitment is making a choice and standing by it. After all, what happens when you meet that perfect person the day after your wedding? What happens when you meet them twenty years later and you have kids with someone else?
If you believe in "the one," then you either have to cut and run, or live the rest of your life in the misery of knowing that you'll never be with "the one."
Personally, I just want a good one.
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I completely agree. The whole concept of the one is nothing more than hollywood fantasy, developed to sell movie tickets.
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